Colourpuncture Resources

The blog on Cafe Self site you are reading now is several years long. Since 2020 I started writing about Colourpuncture based on my personal, clinical and teaching experience and (more…)

Fire Element, our default ‘Love Meter’

Imagine that the early environment you grew up in – your parental family, home, immediate surroundings – had an inbuilt warmth, love and passion or caring and enthusiasm –  meter (more…)

Family Systems: Unresolved conflicts

Unresolved conflicts in the family…it’s hard to find a family not affected by it. There is a difference however between an ‘unresolved’ conflict and ‘unresolvable’ one.  The Unresolved conflict may (more…)

Colourpuncture: Resolving Disappointment

What do we do with disappointments in our life? Usually…(a quick Google search on ‘disappointment’) we tend to ‘cope/deal with’ or ‘get over’ or even ‘distract ourselves from’ disappointments by (more…)